Kick Their Butts in LoveJohn 2:14In the temple courts he found men selling cattle, sheep and doves, and others sitting at tables exchanging money. 15So he made a whip out of cords, and drove all from the temple area, both sheep and cattle; he scattered the coins of the money changers and overturned their tables. 16To those who sold doves he said, "Get these out of here! How dare you turn my Father's house into a market!"
This month's Touchstone has an article by Russell D. Moore on "Soft-Serving Patriarchs" which got me thinking about men's ministry and the nature of our times. The church, even the orthodox congregations, are full of softness that is unseemly to men. In order to overcome the tinkly, pretty praise anthems, the pulpit should roar occasionally. It is Moore's thesis that the church is infected with psychotherapeutic language and concepts, one of which is the "servant leader" ideal, which defines out all the hard edges of masculine Christianity, tuning it more closely to the feminine by aiming men at "service, meekly delivered".
There is something to this charge. Among our Epiphany men and in the Building Brothers program we use in our meetings, there is a lot of emphasis on the value of "kumbaya" love. Jesus did wash his disciples feet to show the power of service and to demonstrate love and commitment. Jesus also turned the tables over in the temple, driving the money changers out with a whip. Dwell on that a little. Servant leader? Nope. Angry, uncompromising righteousness, shouted at the top of his lungs and accompanied by violent action.
Here are a couple of other vignettes to ponder. Remember Jesus "loving" comments to Peter. Once he called him Satan. Matthew 16: 21-23. What must Jesus' face have looked like at that moment? Did he say it with a wink? No. He snarled it. Or again at the famous "foot washing" in John, Peter needed to be brung up short. John 13: 5 - 9. OK, if you won't accept my foot-washing, Peter, then you have NO part with me. Did Jesus whine that comment to Peter. Nope. He challenged him, directly in his face. To Peter's credit, he was coachable. He got it. Just one more. How about the look that Peter and Jesus exchanged in the garden of the High Priest the moment Peter betrayed him the third time. Was the look sweet? No, it was convicting. Peter took it like a punch to the solar plexus. He fled weeping. Luke 22: 60-62. And how about that fig tree in Matthew 21?
The role of men is not just to be servant leaders, but also to exercise their full strength and authority to hold to principle when all around are asking for tolerance, with a whip if necessary. Jesus came bearing a sword. That is our model. Jesus the intolerant. Jesus the righteous. Jesus the patriarch in high dudgeon. His justice is unyielding. His righteousness has no soft edges. Jesus is not our servant, He is our King.
No more soft patriarchy. Stand firm is the command, over and over. We need to stand as firm as He did on the road to Jerusalem. That's why he busted Peter's chops so brutally. "Get behind me Satan." We need to restore some of this wildness to our hearts, bringing the love of Christ, but his uncompromising righteousness, too. Anger is useful in penetrating a man's posing to uncover his sinfulness and complicity in crucifying Christ anew.
I heard Bill Cote speak last week on his downtown ministry, Step 13. His ministry has given out 115,000 coupon books that invite street men to a free meal, a job, and getting control of their lives. The coupons are useful in responding to the pitiful pleas for food and work on the many cardboard signs waved at each of us every day. It takes these men at their word and calls their bluff. How many get to 2029 Larimer to pick up their free meal, get a job or training for it, and get control of their lives? So far, 27 coupons have been turned in. I know enough about myself and men to know that most of these men need the kind of treatment Jesus gave Peter, not the coddling and pity they receive. We need to cut out the alcoholic/drug addict/bums from the few truly needy homeless and the cast off youth. Then we need to challenge them to get off the corner and out of their "stories" of self-pity. Our Savior has given us a good model. Love for our lost brothers often needs to begin with a kick in the butt.
If we are doing this right, then we should be having the results Jesus predicted: "All men will hate you because of me, but he who stands firm to the end will be saved." Matthew 10: 21-23.